I'am part of the equation.

We often tend to blame others for our problems because it always easier to divert the attention elsewhere but what we don't realize that in doing so we are only doing harm and no good ever comes out of it.Even more so in our relationships with our other halves but there is a better way and that way is knowing that anytime you have a problem its not always the other person to blame for you are also part of the equation and that means you are partly responsible for being in the situation and the person that needs fixing its really yourself. You see people treat you the way you allow them to treat you so I suggest instead of only looking outside of yourself you have to look within yourself and see whay things are happening the way they are.